Take The Risk And Rise Above Your Fears

Intro

It is said that 90 percent of our fears never happen, worrying takes you nowhere, and make the foremost out of life. Cherish and love those given to you by life. Rise and conquer your fears.

Questions you ought to Ask Yourself.

1. Are you frightened of love?

Perfect love casts out fear.

2. Are you scared to trust?

Everyone else is but the difference is we do not let that fear stop us from reaching out to those that would never break our trust.
The difference is our decision to rise above the fear.

3. Are you scared of rejection?
Well who isn't? We elect to risk being the fool, we risk opening up, and reaching out. We make that call not because we're so sure of ourselves, some are, some aren't, but we make that call because it's well worth the risk.

This Is What you ought to Know

The process of exposing your true feelings is to risk exposing your true self.
Loving someone is to risk not being loved reciprocally and Life is well worth the risk, Life may be a risk, to live is to risk dying.

We plan to love, live and learn from life. We all know life does not get any easier, but we recover and stronger. We decide not to let our fears stop us from doing all that we will.
We do nott need to carry the burdens of the past with us.

Psychology will tell you to open up.
To risk trying another is to risk involvement and to undertake is to risk failing.
So take the risk and rise above your fears!
Choose to be bold.

Know your self worth.

As an individual you go through tough times and you wonder if life is just hard. Most times you go through it alone, and that can be so frustrating and upsetting.

It was tough for me and the one thing I wish I had known was that I shouldn't have gone through life alone.

Let me rephrase my first statement. As humans, we have tough times and most times we withdraw into our selves for fear of looking weak. Most times we struggle through life putting on a strong font, and we avoid showing how hurt, lost and weak we are because we really do not want to ruin our personality.

The funny part of everything is that, what we fear still hunts us. Our weaknesses still show even when we try hard to hide them.
This is because they are part of us. Our weaknesses do not have to describe us or better put define us. Our weaknesses are a follow come package with us and can be worked on. Emancipate your self from inferiority complex.

The one thing I wish I had known was that my weaknesses do not define me and I am only human after all. I can't try to act all strong and never show my weakness. I can't go on leading the world astray with my fake bravado. Most importantly I wish I had known that I did not have to struggle through life and depression alone.

I wish I had known there were people who were not concerned about eliminating my weakness but people who were sincerely eager to help me work on me. People who love me as I am and people who are willing to work on and with me.

Since, I did not know that, I want you to know that. I want you to know that your weaknesses and flaws are not so much of a big deal as the world tend to put it. Do not get me wrong, Our flaws need to be worked on, yes but please it is not a sin to have “buts.”

I want you to know that you're loved. I'm pretty sure you've heard it a lot., that God loves you. Yes, He does and most importantly he has placed people in your life who love you, so do not let your fears or insecurities blind your eyes to that fact. Do nott let your hurts, and the pains of yesteryear stop you from reaching out.

Always know you're loved, Know that, Confess that, and work with that. There are people there to help you out so do not withdraw and do not fight alone.

Please do not, Don't you dare think of going to bed with a heavy heart and tears in your eyes when you can reach out.

Hey Lady, I need you to know how beautiful you are inside out.

Hey handsome, I need you to understand that you can be bigger than your fears.

Hello teen, I need you to understand that you do not have to fight alone.

Yes Father, I need you to understand that you can lead your home that you are responsible enough to make the right decisions.

Yes Mom You can train your children right! You can be a better mother and understand your child/children Yes you can! Don't you dare say you can't!

Conclusion

Most importantly I need you to know that it's in you to rule your world everywhere you go. Do that! Take charge and be you.

Writer: Abiayi Nmesoomachim